For many people,
being single is not a choice.

For many people,
being single directly puts them into the category that defines them as someone unwanted.

For many people,
being single is a shame.

I'm not one of them.
For me, being single is a choice.
I don't hurry into a relationship only to know that it is tragically wrong.
I don't find someone to love just because everyone around me is falling in love.
I don't do it for lust.

Love is a wonderful thing.
Complicated but wonderful.
Yet I see many couples in my social network are doing it wrong.
Not morally wrong. They just feel wrong.

Love someone just because you need his/her companion in your university life so you never look lonely,
it isn't love.
Love someone just because they are rich and they will buy you things and fulfill your materialistic need,
it isn't love.
Love someone just because you can never be single,
it isn't love.

Superficial love.

Find someone you will never wake up regret your love choice.
Find someone you will wake up and love that person more and more everyday and never less.
Find someone who doesn't just love you when you are financially stable and leave when you aren't.
Find someone who willingly takes care of you when you lose the ability of movement.
Maybe because I have watched too many dramas and movies in my life,
that's why I firmly believe that love is the best thing to do,
that's why I still foolishly believe in divine destiny.

And for many people,
not being married is not a choice.

For many people,
adoption is not a choice.

For me, they all are.
If I'm 30 and I still can't find her., it's alright.
There are many alternative choices out there.

I'm kinda shocked when I ask my friends about this topic,
and most of them are quite against my beliefs.
And still I'm not slightly swayed.
People believe in different things and that's what makes us different.

Love is a lifetime responsibility.
But if you pick it right, it becomes a lifetime reward.

Here is the answer to the many questions that I'm still single.